The Power of Intention
Do you fear rejection when you are making prospecting calls and trying to make appointments?
I would like to share some of my life’s lessons with you.
I am of the opinion that you can only feel rejection when you are trying to “take something” or you have an expectation of how things should go.
In fact, we can only experience true rejection when we try to take something from someone under the guise of giving. So right now I am asking you to look at the underlying reasons for why you prospect.
Do you have an expectation?
If so, why?
Is it not enough to know that you are enough? That everything that you know, all the knowledge you have, your experience, your wisdom, your history of helping people, of having impact on others – is not enough? You can only feel rejected if your hand is extending out towards the cookie jar and you are “caught”.
How about if you today made a decision to let go of wanting what’s inside of the cookie jar?
When you are truly in your power, all that it is you – then no one can reject you, for then there is nothing that you need from anyone else. When you take everything that you know, your wisdom, your skill sets – and you move forward, giving without expectation, asking for nothing, vibrating with love and generosity as your intention – you cannot be pushed away, for in this way you become irresitible and all powerful.
Have you ever met someone at an event and thought “wow, this person is so incredibly grounded, so incredibly powerful” I just have to meet them!
Do you understand where this power comes from?
It’s because you know on a vibrational level that they need nothing from you. As they furnish whatever they need for themselves. And you seeing this, sensing this, want that. Want that assuredness for yourself.
In fact, you have a gift for yourself.
The gift is that you have this power within you.
Unfortunately, it’s your fear that prevents you for seeing how powerful you truly are.
Nobody can stop you from giving. Nobody can fault you for giving.
You cannot fault yourself for giving.
In what ways have you stopped giving to yourself?
In what ways have you stopped pursuing your dreams, your passions and your goals?
What if you were to let go of all expectation of yourself and others? How would this free yourself to live the kind of life you truly want?
1. Set your goals.
2. Set the intention to give out of a genuine desire to help others instead of expectation or “neediness”.
3. Prospect for new business from the point of view that you wish to become more “connected” - and come from a place of complete giving. Come from a place of just “being present” with the other person.
This will set your vibration on autopilot. You won’t even have to think. In fact the less “thinking” you do the better (trust me on this) - “feel” your calls – be truly present and in the moment with the person you are cold calling.
Try it, and get back to me.
I really do love your comments and your emails. I am here for you 100%. If you need help, please let me know – I only want you to succeed and live the kind of life that you aspire to. A life filled with joy, peace and love.
Until next time, all my best!
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Kevin Boyle
Author / Public Speaker / Sales Trainer and Coach
“The Secrets to Sales Mastery”
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